An amazing way to win an argument or solving a conflict is: when concluded, both parties have gained what they desire, and they are both very happy with the outcome. If both parties end up forming a connection and leave with a smile on their face, that’s probably the best outcome.
Winning an argument or solving a conflict shouldn’t be about gaining what you want, while the other party experiences a loss. It’s your responsibility for that to not happen. Take care of each other. It’s half a start.